Thursday, October 25, 2007

my church is better than your church

DISCLAIMER: THIS BLOG CONTAINS SOME GRIPE

You know, you hear a lot about the "problems with Christians today" or the "problems with the church" today, and I'm not saying I haven't ever contributed to that stuff, but I really think I've found the root of the "church's problems." The problem being that no church truly realizes that they are on the same team as the church across town. I realize that organizations like the Southern Baptist Association and the Association of Evangelical Churches would lead you to think otherwise, but let me ask you this: when is the last time you saw a church in a community partner with another church to accomplish something for Christ. Whether it be a simple Sunday morning service, an outreach event, or anything else, it is very rare that you see something like that. And why?

I had a conversation the other day that would provide one answer. When another church in the Columbia area got brought up, someone's first comment was "there is too much fundamentally wrong about that church." Wow. What a profound statement, coming from a human who descends from the lineage to whom the Fall occurred. Let me ask this: with statements like the Great Commission as our guide, doesn't the mere fact that we haven't reached "all nations" with the message of Christ prove that there is something "fundamentally wrong" with every church? When I asked what fundamentals this church was violating, all I got were several (unbiblical) traditions that this church didn't strive to hold up. I worry that sometimes the line between traditions of the church and what the bible says about church is getting blurred.

And maybe a reason we can't reach people in the multitudes we want to is because this is what the rest of the worlds sees when they think about church: a group of a hundred different denominations that can't even bring themselves not to dispute with each other, much less the outside world. Well, either that, or they see that we need to put a spokesperson on CNN to tell everyone that we as the "conservative Christian" demographic are having a crisis because we don't have a political candidate yet. To me, in a broken world like ours, there HAS TO BE better ways of spending our time as a church than concerning ourselves with crap like that.

I've never been one to think we need to modify our behavior as a church or as Christians to "appeal" to non-believers. But I don't think it's a coincidence that when we do something as un-Christlike as endorsing a political candidate and competing amongst ourselves, that we end up turning people off to the message of Christ.

This message is a very relevant one. I don't think we have to try to make it relevant to people; people need hope. If we can stick to the truth without embellishing it with what WE think is best, it will work 100% of the time. But the problem is when we start creating our own fundamentals, and turn our focus on making our way the best rather than cooperating to reach an empty world.

I find the church very worldly in the way that we joined the competitive corporate world. The more "customers" we can get, the better off we'll be. I can't help but think that the real reason we won't work with other churches and organizations is the same reason you don't see Pepsi and Coke teaming up to "refresh the world." Each is afraid their product isn't strong enough to withstand such an effort. As the church, we have Someone strong enough (but isn't a product--more on that another day), we're just really worried that someone else is packaging it better than us. Let's be the exception to the rest of the world, for once, please. Isn't that what He was?

3 comments:

Rhett Brown said...

But if churches team up, especially different denominations (God forbid!) don't they have to get over their differences of theology? Or even worse, admit that maybe they don't have the absolute answers to everything? And maybe one of their members will decide to go to the other church instead. Maybe everyone will just quit because they can't stand rubbing elbows with the heathens from 1st(your denomination here)Community Church.

Kent said...

I Corinthians 1:10

"I appeal to you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another so that there may be no divisions among you and that you may be perfectly united in mind and thought."

And Paul said this to a CHURCH, no less. That's probably another one of those things in the Bible that's really just a metaphor, though. It shouldn't be taken literally. It's funny how parts of the Bible get ignored sometimes.

Jeff said...

One of the things that encourages me in the face of all the divisions within the Church is the fact that my local congregation is partnering with another church to enable our local Upward Basketball league to reach more children(for the 2nd year in a row). And the best part? It's a Southern Baptist church (you know, one of those churches) partnering with a (gasp!) Lutheran church. When churches can learn to keep the Main Thing (the Gospel of Jesus Christ and how He brought salvation to the world) the main thing and agree to disagree (lovingly) on the finer points (grape juice or wine? square bread or poker chips?), it's amazing the power and witness to the community that can be unleashed.